First, if you’ve lost someone close to you, we’re sending you the biggest hug. We know firsthand how hard it can be to plan such a joyful occasion when someone you love isn’t there to celebrate with you. As wedding planners, we’ve seen so many beautiful and personal ways couples have honored their late loved ones, and we wanted to share a few meaningful ideas to help you do the same.
Reserve a Seat at your Ceremony
One of the simplest yet most touching ways to honor a loved one is by reserving a seat for them at your ceremony. Placing a framed photo, a small bouquet, or a personal item on a chair in the front row creates a beautiful tribute and a reminder that they are still with you in spirit.
Incorporate Their Clothing
Wearing or carrying a piece of their clothing is a heartfelt way to feel connected to them. We’ve seen brides wrap part of their mother’s or grandmother’s dress around their bouquet, grooms wear their father’s cufflinks or favorite tie, and even handkerchiefs sewn into a dress or suit lining for a hidden but meaningful touch.
Using a Piece of their Jewelry
Jewelry holds so much sentimental value, and wearing a late loved one’s piece can be a special way to carry them with you. A bride might wear her grandmother’s ring or earrings, while a groom could wear his grandfather’s watch. It’s a subtle yet deeply personal tribute.
Add a Bouquet or Boutonniere Charm
Bouquet and boutonniere charms are a beautiful way to keep a loved one close. Whether it’s a tiny photo frame, an engraved name, or a charm with their handwriting, these keepsakes are a meaningful addition that can also be captured in wedding photos.
Include Their Favorite Song
Music has a way of making memories feel alive. You could walk down the aisle to their favorite song, dedicate a dance in their honor, or play it as the last song of the night. We’ve even had couples incorporate a late loved one’s voice recording into their vows or reception playlist—an incredibly touching way to bring them into the day.
Light a Candle or Display a Memory Table
Setting up a small memory table at your reception with framed photos, candles, or special keepsakes is a beautiful way to honor multiple loved ones. A single candle placed near your ceremony or sweetheart table can also symbolize their presence throughout the celebration.
We know how important it is to make your wedding feel personal and meaningful. No matter how you choose to honor your loved ones, we’re here to help bring your vision to life in a way that feels right for you. Their memory will always be a part of your celebration, and we’re honored to help you create a day filled with love, joy, and cherished moments.
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